Do you lie a lot? Do you know someone who lies a lot?
01/16/2024 ● Sandra Ruiz Mello
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The act of lying greatly interferes with the liar's life. This pathology has even been given a name: Mitomania, a chronic liar. Mythomania is a psychological disorder in which the person lies compulsively, without there being any other psychological disorder or dementia.
Lying is something so present in the lives of people who lie too much that it negatively interferes with their relationships and their quality of life.The causes of this mania for lyingare still being studied, but some factors can point to the condition, such as personal experiences, life history, relationships and even genetics.
Conventional lying, on the other hand, always starts from fear of telling the truth and fear of the consequences. There are lies in which the person feels the need to get more attention or acceptance, a common liar.Not every liar suffers from mitomania, so how do you identify the liar suffering from mitomania with the ordinary liar?Chronic lying is the conscious exaggeration of telling the lie and the naturalness with which the chronic liar expresses himself without feeling any remorse.Chronic lying is the conscious exaggeration of telling the lie and the naturalness with which the chronic liar expresses himself without feeling any remorse.Chronic lying is the conscious exaggeration of telling the lie and the naturalness with which the chronic liar expresses himself without feeling any remorse.
For the chronic liar it is so common to lie that even they come to believe that it is real.Common lying occurs when we think that if we tell the truth we could harm ourselves or someone else, so we lie to escape from something we imagine to be harmful.There are situations in which lying is also seen as survival, because the truth will not always resolve a certain situation and so the person lies to protect themselves or others.
It's not good in any situation to use lying as a weapon to resolve any situation, but it's understandable.On the other hand, chronic lying must be treated, as it's very damaging for the person who lies and also for the people who live with the chronic liar.
How to spot a chronic liar?
If you feel you are a chronic liar or know one, seek help to start a course of treatment such as psychotherapy, for example, because this type of pathology generates serious emotional and mental problems and with the help of a professional in the field will contribute positively by identifying the reasons that trigger so many lies and remedying them, obviously with the total willingness and commitment of those who suffer from this pathology.
Take care of yourself and love yourself as you are.
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