Loving is one of the most beautiful emotions that anyone can experience and when we are reciprocated, happiness is the result. Dating takes place so that the couple can conduct the relationship for a certain period of time in order to get to know each other better and, if it is the choice of both, to continue with a conjugal union, which we call marriage.

But what do you do if the other party doesn't want to get married? There are many doubts that permeate our minds, such as: doesn't he love me that much? It's important to understand that it's not because your boyfriend doesn't want to marry you at a certain moment that he doesn't love you.

With regard to men, there has always been the thought that they are more resistant to committing to a marriage, but nowadays many women are choosing financial stability first and then thinking about marriage. Know that we can't compare external relationships with our own, each relationship has an intensity and a need.

Always try to maintain a bond of complicity, love and trust with your partner and if your relationship has been going on for a long time and there's no talk of marriage, it's important to identify some signs that can show you how your relationship is going and whether or not it has a future for marriage.

Some signs that can answer some questions about whether or not your partner wants to marry you:

• He doesn't plan for the future with you.
• He avoids talking about the wedding every time you bring up the subject and he starts talking about something else that has nothing to do with the wedding.
• It can also happen that you start the conversation about marriage and he doesn't take a stand, he's doubtful and says it's not the time yet, so he doesn't give you a positive or negative answer.
• He says that marriage is an unnecessary expense.
• He says he's not ready for marriage yet, even though he's been in a relationship with you for years.

If you love and respect each other, it may happen that he is a little afraid of taking this step in the relationship. Always seek an open and sincere dialog with him, tell him that you have been together for a long time and that you want to establish the relationship and have the desire to start a family.

If you realize that the two of you don't share the same life projects, that only you are dedicated to the relationship and that your partner still wants the freedom to remain single, review your priorities, whether you really feel safe in this relationship, whether you are loved and respected. Only you will know how much your relationship costs you.

Love yourself first and then dedicate yourself to the other, so that you will always be whole for yourself and for the other.