Maternity
04/01/2024 ● Sandra Ruiz Mello
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The best experience a woman can have in life is certainly motherhood. The arrival of a child changes everything, priorities are different. It is a unique and unforgettable learning experience, a bond so great that we are incapable of measuring it. I understand that this relationship between mother and child is a Divine and unconditional gift, because when we love as greatly as this maternal love, we don't see the "limits of things", but we exaggerate everything, love, affection, zeal, protection, etc.
But is this unconditional love felt by all mothers?
It's impossible to answer this question, but I believe it should be the same, but each mother is unique, so she feels her feelings in a unique way, it's very unique to each being. In conversations between mothers we can see different accounts of this experience, but in all conversations love is the most felt and experienced feeling.
Here I relate my own experience of motherhood, where I became a mother after the age of 30 and understood that everything I had experienced before didn't affect what I was experiencing at that moment of my son's arrival. I had always imagined myself as a mother, but when it actually happened I was so glorified that I just thanked and loved. I understood that my life was only complete when I gave birth to my son and I love him so much that I only evolve positively day by day.
But motherhood also involves situations of fear and insecurity, because as we love so much we worry about everything that might happen and when this worry is exaggerated it causes fear and we can become insecure and the pain is the result of this fear. We must understand that love doesn't generate pain, so first of all if possible try to work on your love so that it doesn't cause you pain.
Understand that worries are valid, but all within control, without exaggeration. Motherhood is an inexplicable situation for me, because each person feels uniquely, so what may serve as an example for one mother may not serve as an example for another.
Love without fear, but without exaggeration.
TO THINK ABOUT
" The more you know, the more you realize you don't know. "
Aristotle
" The American Dream is something no wall will ever contain. "
Barack Hussein Obama
" The robbed that smiles, steals something from the thief. "
William Shakespeare
" One must work and dare if one really wants to live. "
Vincent Van Gogh
" Mars is there, waiting to be reached. "
Neil Armstrong
" The one thing I regret was not being able to spend more time on the Moon. "
Neil Armstrong
" It's not just choosing the right problems, but working on them in the right way. "
Bill Gates
" The only thing that matters is love—whatever it is. "
Sigmund Freud
" I'm afraid that the following syllogism may be used by some in the future. Turing believes machines think. Turing lies with men. Therefore machines do not think. "
Alan Turing
" Men willingly believe what they wish. "
Julio Cesar