Are you Closed to Love?
01/18/2024 ● Sandra Ruiz Mello
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Usually, people who choose to close themselves off to a romantic relationship have probably suffered some negative impact in previous relationships that have made them give up for a certain period of time or not enter into new relationships, for fear of experiencing lies and disappointments again;
They no longer believe that they can be happy in love relationships, so as a defense they block themselves off so that they don't suffer any more. There are also cases in which the person has unrequited love and can't let go of that feeling. Understand that relating is an organic need, it's important to believe in yourself and know that disappointments, fears, are normal feelings in anyone's life, but that they shouldn't take over our lives.
If at some point in your life you feel the need for peace of mind, perhaps isolating yourself a little from people to connect with yourself is important, but make time for it and don't close yourself off to new loving experiences. Perhaps you have low self-esteem that prevents you from seeing and valuing who you are, your values, your abilities, in short, loving yourself.
If you love yourself, you'll be ready to open your heart and let in whoever you think could be part of your life, because locking yourself away won't help you at all. Believe that you have many good things to offer and add to someone's life, and that someone also wants to enter your story and walk with you, you just need to be free to experience this moment.
So leave your frustrations behind, establish confidence in yourself and write a new story of your life. Naturally you will surely attract a new love who will follow you to enjoy the best that life has to offer, and if for some reason it didn t end the way you wanted, don t be discouraged, because it was important in building your life.
All the stories we've experienced, whether in love, family, friendships or professional relationships, are very important for building our lives in this universe. Live the best of yourself and explore the best of others, without guilt or judgment.
It's always worth loving.
TO THINK ABOUT
" He who is not a good servant will not be a good master. "
Socrates
" If you hear a voice within you say 'you cannot paint,' then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced. "
Vincent Van Gogh
" There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe nor politic nor popular, but he must take it because his conscience tells him it is right. "
Marthin Luther King Jr
" The mystery of the beginning of all things is insoluble by us; and I for one must be content to remain an agnostic. "
Charles Darwin
" In the long run, my observations have convinced me that some men, reasoning preposterously, firstestablish some conclusion in their minds which, either because of its being their own or because of their having received it from some person who has their entire confidence, impresses them so deeply that one finds it impossible ever to get it out of their heads. "
Galileo Galilei
" When you are enthusiastic about what you do, you feel this positive energy. It's very simple. "
Paulo Coelho
" The cosmos is interesting rather than perfect, and everything is not part of some greater plan, nor is all necessarily under control. "
Carl Sagan
" You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before, she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? "
Bob Marley
" If one man can destroy everything, why can't one girl change it? "
Malala Yousafzai
" When something is important, I believe it is possible for ordinary people to choose to be extraordinary. Well, you do it even if the odds are not in your favor. "
Elon Musk
