The feeling of loving someone is very unique, because each person feels it in a unique and particular way. However, this doesn't stop them from having feelings for someone else, but only they can feel the intensity in which they are explored. When we talk about feelings, we often confuse loving with liking, which are quite different, which is why we sometimes confuse feelings and don't know how to classify them.

The confusion between liking and loving often occurs due to daily coexistence, the similarities and ideals that one has with the other, which is not always a strong feeling, but due to compatibilities one can confuse loving with liking. But what to do when you find yourself with this doubt of identifying the real feeling? Do I really love two people at the same time? And how do I deal with this situation?

First of all, you need to adjust your thoughts and analyze the relationship you have with the two people. Observe the differences in each of them, perhaps you identify with these differences. If you feel that you love two people at the same time and maintain a loving relationship  with two people and they both know about each other and agree with this type of relationship, try to know and understand how important these people are to you in vice versa, to the point that you love them  and choose to relate to them at the same time.

Maybe you're someone who doesn't believe that love has a limit and being monogamous isn't an option for you at certain times in your life, especially when you feel you're loving two people at the same time. But it's also important to know if you're not confusing your feelings, because they're different people and certainly the relationship with each one will be different and managing two relationships at the same time is not an easy task and there are risks, because you may not be equally dedicated to both relationships.

Now  if you feel you love two people at the same time and there is only a relationship with one of them and you would like to  relate to both, be honest with your partner and tell them that you love someone else too, so the situation becomes clear and a bond of trust is established.

Whether or not your partner will accept this situation is a fact to be discussed and worked on, the key at this point is the sincerity and respect you have for him. It's important to find out what you really feel and understand your feelings, but always be honest with yourself and your partner, so your relationship will certainly be strengthened, with a solid foundation built on a lot of love, trust, dedication and respect.

If you're facing this dilemma of loving two people at the same time, facing serious difficulties in dealing with your feelings, surely a therapeutic professional can help you.