Being despised makes us feel sad and can also cause us to feel inferior, but this is not the rule, because there are people who, when faced with contempt, don't get upset and carry on with their lives as normal. For those who feel despised by someone, whether it's their partner, a friend or family member, the feeling of sadness makes them look for answers that in many cases may not even exist.There are cases of people who feel so superior to others that they don't want any kind of contact with people they think are inferior to them, which is very silly, because nobody is superior to anyone else, we're just people in different life situations.

What Pain Do We Feel from Contempt?

For those who are shaken when they are despised by others, the pain of indifference hurts a lot, because it makes them feel diminished and lacking in energy, and can often demotivate them, especially if this indifference comes from someone we love and who is very important in our lives.

How to cure this pain?

First of all, it's important to look for the cause of this contempt, such as assessing whether you did something to hurt her feelings to the point where she no longer wants any kind of contact with you. If it's not possible to have an open dialog with this person, find someone close to her and to you who can make this contact and help you clarify the facts.

Now, if the person really doesn't want you, is convinced that they don't want you in their life anymore, you have to be mature and  walk away is necessary, don't keep insisting on a relationship that is hurt, give it time, maybe on another occasion you can clarify things and if it's not possible, life will go on.Now, if you haven't done anything to the person and they despise you very much, don't feel inferior to them, don't turn their attitude into a conflict for you, because it will only make you suffer. Sometimes this contempt without cause will make you stronger as a person.

The fact that the relationship is over doesn't make you any less, your life goes on and you more than anyone need to value yourself, because your strength doesn't come from the other person but from you. Wounds heal naturally, so always remain you and know that love, admiration, affection, friendship and attention must be free in order to be solid and true.

Don't humiliate yourself and never give up on being happy.