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How to deal with your teenager

02/07/2024 ● Sandra Ruiz Mello

How to deal with your teenager

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For many parents, their children's adolescence is or was the most difficult period to deal with, because it is a phase of change, where there are many oscillations and instabilities that are difficult to understand and agree with. But the family must understand that sometime in their lives they have already gone through this phase, where many were calm and others were not, so the best thing to do is to know how to use communication in a positive way for everyone.

 

Here are some attitudes that can help you improve your relationship with your teenager:

  • Always be open to dialog, be your child's confidant, because if they see in you a person who understands and listens to them, the parent-child relationship will certainly be super healthy;
  • Don't make judgments, parents don't always have to agree with their children in vice versa, but they do have to respect each other;
  • Know how to value your child, believe that they are capable and always encourage them in their projects;
  • Always try to give good advice, because if your child admires you, they will certainly listen to it;
  • Set a good example, because your child will surely reproduce your behavior;
  • Know how to give your child space, don't keep telling them what to do, let them learn on their own, it's through experiences that we grow as people;
  • Try to listen to them and understand them before criticizing them;
  • If you criticize him, let it be constructive criticism that helps him evolve and not make him feel inferior;
  • Try to take an interest in things that your child likes, because you'll certainly have more to talk about and you'll spend more time together;
  • Believe in your child and if possible give them autonomy to manage some tasks around the house, showing them that they can take on some responsibility;
  • Always try to be present in school matters, such as going to school meetings, taking part in activities if necessary, helping him clarify any doubts, in short, always supporting him;
  • Understand that your child is growing up, so don't treat them like a child anymore.


Trust in the love, education, affection and respect that has always guided the relationship between parents and children, so you can be sure that the relationship will be healthy and happy, because it was true and with a lot of love.

TO THINK ABOUT

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Alan Turing

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